Relationships

Discover Your Love Language From These 5 Love Languages

Love, it’s not just a word everyone uses, it’s a deep concept and a true choice. In marriage we make commitment to each other from bottom of heart through our actions. Love is not just a list you can check off. It’s a way of life, living, thinking and doing.

Love and Crush, these two are different concepts, which have been mixed up by people. It can be terribly wrong if we blend them together. Crush is a choice and you may or may not follow it and in love you have no options. Crush is temporary infatuation while love is about soul bonding. Love is magic but crush is fairy tale.

5 Love Languages

Do you know your love language? Everyone has a preferred “love language”, but not everybody knows well enough to know what it is. And maybe they even know their love / spouse’s love language.

Love language (kærlighedssprog) concept has been developed by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., a renowned marriage therapist and author of The 5 Love Languages.  It provides insights into how people show their love to each other. There is no perfect book about love, but Five Love Languages (kærlighedssprog) is most important read on love.

5 love languages:

Words of Affirmation: This language is all about vocally affirming your loved ones. Think lots of “I love you,” “You’re so awesome,” “I’m so proud of you.” This true affirmation will create your habit that will change your love life.

Acts of Service: It is true that actions speak louder than words. Instead of having a partner gush about their love, people with this love language would show it by volunteering to do a chore, offering up an indulgent massage, or making dinner.

Receiving Gifts:  Gifts are another way to your love. It’s not necessarily to buy expensive gifts—even small gifts like flowers or magazines can speak volumes.

Quality Time: Lover need your time and proper attention; this could be best gift for your partner. People with this love language feel most loved when their partner switches into airplane mode for date night.

Physical Touch: Sometimes nothing says I love you like holding hands, sharing a shower, or a good old-fashioned make out session.

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Relationships

5 ways to save your relationship from breakup

Why divorce and couples break up is common nowadays? Why couples can’t live happily like we see in movies. If there is something wrong in relationship, and you don’t want breakup, then you need an expert advice. Communication is the key to a happy relationship. Many couples don’t talk each other about their issues and live like statues, they avoid to talk and in the end they breakup.

When your whole relationship becomes a nightmare, then you may need couples therapy because this way you can save your relationship.  May you are not agree with me but here are some guidelines that can help you:

  • Be yourself

For a successful relationship you must build up trust. Be yourself and don’t allow others to force you to change who you are. Stay true to your passion, dreams and goals.  When you got married, it does not mean you have to change your personality. The person who likes you just the way you are. If you try to be different, may he or she will end up resenting you, and ultimately it means breakup.

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  • Romance

Your romantic attitude brings happiness in your life partner. So if you will show cold behavior in this type of beautiful relationship, no romance, no sex, it may lead to a breakup or couples counseling.  If you want strong relationship, then you cannot ignore sex with partner.

  • Be thankful

Being thankful to your partner is really an important factor and many people are ignoring it. That’s why they eventually end up with breakup or they need couples therapy to save their relationship. It is important to keep the flame burning.

  • Compromise

Every relationship works with compromises. They are part of successful relationship. It’s OK you may don’t need to agree with everything. While arguing with your partner control yourself and listen him or her to try to reach common ground.

  • Be honest

To take your relationship longer you must be honest with your partner. Rather than finding weaknesses in your partner, find yourself and asses your own. Communicate each other and tell the trust. Find good qualities in your partner and tell her/him to make a positive energy.

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Why Couples therapy

If you are still failed to manage your relationship and worried then you don’t waste time contact your nearest couple therapist.  Your coach can analyze the conflicts, advice and guide you a better relationship tips.

If you are from Denmark, I know one of the good couples therapist. Mikael  Hoffmann offering services in Frederiksberg, Denmark. Click here to visit “Parterapi Frederiksberg”.

 

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