Indian Girls,

Grandparents and desi Indian girl thoughts

Living with your parents can be hell, but what happens if your grandparents move in too?

Priya is mature Indian NRI girl, she is living with her happy and wealthy family. But She thinks happniess comes from care and specially respect the parents. She loves her Grandma. Priya is really hot indian girl who want to change the social life and want to let us know about generation gap between grandparents and us.

She have share an article, which is for care of grandparents and specially dedicated it to new generation who don’t care their grandparents.

Jaspreet Pandohar has written the following articles for desi girls who take care or not about their grand mom and father.

Ever thought you’d be single, in your mid thirties and still living at home with your parents? No? Me neither. Ever thought that you’d also end up living with grandma or grandpa? Nope? Alas, that is the exact predicament many young British men and women like myself have found themselves in during the past few years.

Having done the right thing and got a good education, built a decent career and social circle and lived independently for many years, only to find the deteriorating economic climate slap you in the face and send you running back home to live with mummy and daddy can be a depressing experience.

Unable to afford a mortgage or soaring rent payments, many young British and Asian twenty and thirty somethings are falling into the demographic conveniently coined by the tabloids as the ‘Boomerang Generation’. We may have been thrown out or left of our own accord, but somehow we manage to find our way back home.

Coming from a well established, close-knit Punjabi clan living in over-priced London, I’m lucky to have the family nest to fall back on. It’s saved me from ending up on a friend’s sofa or dingy bedsit and spending my money on cheap takeaways. Many don’t have that option. But getting back into your old bedroom doesn’t come without a price.

Having your parents keep an eye on your comings and goings is inevitable. But to then have your feisty eighty two year old grandmother comment on your every movement and use you as a convenient domestic help is another kettle of fish. I know this only too well. Once every four months when my grandma comes to stay for a month, I end up being forced to deliver breakfast in bed, cook special meals, iron her clothes and if I’m really lucky help her pluck the hairs growing from her chin (I draw the line at this point).

Then there’s the constant shouting because grandma refuses to wear her hearing aid, or being woken up at two, three and four in the morning by the creepy sound of her walking stick as she rattles up and down the corridor on her umpteenth trip to the bathroom. I won’t even begin to mention the drama that ensues when lazy grandma is forced to have a bath after days of childish refusal.

But all this is bearable. After all, elderly people need help with personal and domestic chores. What is not tolerable however is the ignorance and deceitful behaviour people of a certain age can sometimes exhibit when they should know better. Having been spoilt by my grandfather into not lifting a finger in her own home, after his untimely demise my grandma has come to expect the same level of servitude from everyone with whom she comes in contact.

From refusing to get up to fetch herself a glass of water, picking up her discarded tissues to switching on the room light (even though she is more than physically capable), my grandma is a grand master at making you feel guilty if you don’t drop everything to help her. Failing to understand why her daughter in laws go out to work and don’t wait on her sons hand and foot, despite the need to earn a living being explained to her multiple times, is another one of her specialities. Also out of the bounds of her comprehension is the fact that young people have to go out to school or university. Why can’t they just sit around at her feet massaging her legs while listening to mundane stories about her village?

Her continual need for constant attention and companionship is just the tip of an iceberg. For example, there’s nothing my grandma likes better than to rile up my mother while my father is not in ear shot. I used to think the Saas-Bahu dramas on Indian television channels were far fetched. That was until my grandma rode into town.

Having three generations of the same family living under the same roof is not an unusual occurrence amongst Indian families. The concept of extended families has existed for centuries and served a good purpose. But in twenty first century Britain, or any other modern country for that matter, having several different generations in the same household can be a recipe for disaster. We have grown accustomed to our independence, young and old. Adjusting our lifestyles and plans to suits others for the sake of their whims or unwillingness to change isn’t easy.

And it’s not only my generation who is finding it challenging living with their elders. My parents’ generation are too. Having fought tooth and nail to move out of the family home in the 1970s, my parents like many other first generation Asians settled in Britain, suffered more emotional blackmail than an entire season of Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi when they finally dared to strike out on their own. Defying ones family to live separately was, and can still be, a brave thing to do. To have that very family re-enter your life decades later can be equally traumatic.

But what if you find you cannot or simply do not want to live with an elderly member of the family whose presence is unnecessarily or intentionally disrupting? And what if they don’t want to live with you? Is it wrong to want to be rid of them, or at least look for an alternative living arrangement?

Placing your parents or grand parents into residential care or a nursing home remains a huge taboo within the Asian community here in Britain as it does elsewhere. It’s seen as a callous, selfish act and only considered as a last resort. But there are circumstances when this could work for the benefit of both parties. The elderly member of the family gets their own personal space and level of attention and care they deserve, while the family gets some peace of mind. There I said it! I’m sure I’ll be damned. Source: the-nri.com

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Desi Girls

Prostitutes in the Pakistan and India (call girls)

A call girl or escort is a sex worker who (unlike a street walker) is not visible to the general public, nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an escort agency. The client must make an appointment, usually by calling a telephone number. Call girls often advertise their services in small ads in magazines and via the Internet, although an intermediary advertiser, such as an escort agency, may be involved in promoting more upmarket escorts, while some may be handled by a pimp. Pakistani Call girls may work either in-call, where the client comes to them, or out-call, where they go to the client.

 

 

We hear prostitutes in the Pakistan Rawalpindi and Islamabad charging minimum 10,000 Rupees. And from Lahore you can get a prostitute from “Heera mandi” by 1000 rupees or less than it depend on bargain (sometimes) at one point I felt very sorry for the prostitutes in Pakistan. It’s sad when I found out what happened to one young prostitutes girl, she was only 14 years old and was from Multan ruler areas, and her mom was forcing her to have sex with grown men and stuff like that and one of the man killed her after a week. We have been hear such kind of news many times from Pakistan. Similar stories also raising from Bangladesh and India. Poor people being intend to the sex only for money!

When I heard that I was really very interested to know about them and to find out why these innocent Paki girls want to do such kind of vulgar things.

I have read an article on a Pakistani online forum where a guy have wrote about his own experience with Pakistani prostitutes, and he have asked many questions to those girls, it was like interview of prostitutes girl and then he help her.

That guy have try to help one prostitute girl to get her back into her normal life and she did well. read below his own words,

This prostitute thanked me so much, I was feeling very, very sorry for her. So I sold a car that I bought just for cruising around and I sold it for 17 lak and I gave all the money to her. And, then I came back from Pakistan, and she promised to call me and not to do prostitution anymore. And every week (Sunday) she calls me or I call her, she is doing very good now, I send her money so she can do a English course in collage. And next year I am going to go see her, she wants to get married and have kids and have normal life.

I think everyone should do this, if you are belong to rich family then you should call a prostitute to your home (not for sex man!! 🙂 you can trust and help her to reform her life, think of it as if this was your sister, these women have no option. We should help them!

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Desi Girls

Lahore girls always looks cute and sexy

Lahore Girls are a sign of beauty, glamor, innocence and softness. The girls of Lahore, Pakistan are very mature, determined and hardworking. That’s why they always portray the imagination of every artist. In their eyes they have courage of sacrifices for their families and pride of caring for them. Lahori girls love with their life partner sincerely, They help their families and the society in so lots of ways. Pure desi lahori girl if you want to see, we have here on gixmi.com. This lahori cute girl bear alot and live straight, she is symbol of sexy Lahore girls just look in her eyes and you will realize I am wrote truth about her. Want loyal friends in real life, mobile phone or at internet. She deserve loyalty so be good have good from Lahore.
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Lahori Girls in College

Lahori Girls in College

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Bengali Girls

Hot dhaka girl is talking about love and friendship secrets

Love and Friendship, these elements plays vital role in our life. Specially when some body is without aims and objective in life. Komali is beautiful modern girl from Dhaka Bangladesh, She lives in high society of Dhaka and having lot of friends in her circle from Bangldesh. She belong to educated family and can understand the feelings of uneducated people and their problems. She want to help those people who are fall in love but do not understanding how to manage these things properly. And want to tell you about true friendship and real meaning of love and friendship dating.

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Here are few things a guy can do to keep his girlfriend happy. Bengali girl Komali knows well about it so want to write you guys how you can keep your girl friends so long.

Be loyal to her

This is the most basic and important rule. You would not mind occasional flirting but it could lead to bigger issues. Do not two time her, come what may! The relationship prospers if you are honest. Do not try to cheat on your partner. Discuss issues and communicate if you feel there is a problem. No one is perfect and there will be always something more that you will desire. Being loyal is not about not getting attracted but it is remembering that you have a partner who loves you, every time you feel attracted.

Say sorry

Do not be reluctant to say sorry if you have made a mistake or have hurt her in some way. ‘Apology is a lovely perfume; it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious one,’ whoever said this said it rightly. Never say, ‘I am sorry that I hurt you’. This shows arrogance. Instead, say that you are sorry and you should not have done so.

Say that you love her

These three magical words do wonders. ‘I love you’ is what you have to tell her from time to time to make your relationship strong. Gently hold her hand, look deep into her eyes and tell her how much you love her and how much you care about her.


Call her back

You do not have to climb on roof tops and shout your lungs out to her. If you love her, express it. Do not forget to call her back when you said to do so. At least call up once a day to ask what is she doing? Did she have her food on time? Just make a call to say ‘I miss you’ or ‘I love you’. It shows you care and all it takes is a five minute call.

Give missed calls

Whenever you get time, buzz her to tell her that you are missing her. Your missed calls will make her feel special. They will also create a mysterious effect and you will have something to talk about when you actually call up or meet. Activate a romantic caller tune on your mobile phone. If she returns your missed calls, she will first hear the romantic number that will captivate her heart.

Send her sweet text messages

Make the best use of technology when you are running short on time. If you cannot call her then text her. Shower her with cute messages just to tell her that she is on your mind. Text her and let her know that you are missing her a lot (do not fake it). In your text messages mention sweet names for her like sweetheart, honey or cutie pie.

Share things with her

Let her know about your life. Do not create a big gap. Tell her about your past, if it is important, before she gets to know from some other source. Introduce her to your friends, tell her about what happened at work or tell her what your mother is cooking on this weekend. Ask her opinion on which shirt you should wear for work. It will make her feel that you value her.


Spend time with her

No relationship will work unless you give it time. Remember your first date and try to make your every other date as exciting as the first time you met. Your girlfriend will appreciate that you made time for her. Do things that will make the time you spent together memorable. A candle light dinner and a romantic love song with some champagne can make her fantasies real. There is nothing more romantic than taking a walk on a rainy day without any umbrellas. Sip some coffee together after that and you see her glow with the warmth of your love. Do the unexpected at times. It can turn a simple date into an eventful one.


Give her some space

Do not keep nagging. Give her some breathing space. Do not act over possessive. Let her spend time with her friends. Do not feel envious when she is enjoying with her pals. Let her know that you trust her. Avoid clinging to her like magnet all the time. A little space is important to let her miss you.

Respect her decisions

Remember something you have learnt at school? Give respect and you will get respect. Respect her decisions and encourage her to achieve her goals. Call her and wish her good luck if she is going on a job interview. Stand by her side if she is depressed regarding her career or family. Tell her not to worry and be there for her. It is okay if you cannot give great advice but just by making her feel that you are there for her can make her feel better.

Public display of affection

Show your affection for her publicly. Do not feel hesitant. Hold her hand when you are walking. Put your hand around her shoulder and make her feel that you really care for her. Avoid kissing in public or you will find raised eyebrows around you. In worse cases, you might attract some rude remarks.

Complement her

You have approached her as you liked everything about her. Complement her when you notice something nice about her. Adore her beautiful smile. Admire her new attire or haircut. Tell her that you love the perfume she wears. Do not criticise her habits and do not try to change her. If there is really a problem, discuss it with her and find a solution together.

Drop love notes and letters

Go with the saying ‘old is gold’. Adopt the old way of writing a letter. Write a letter, sprinkle the perfume you wear on it and mail it on the address of your sweetheart. She will be more than glad to receive a love letter from you. Without her knowledge leave a love note wherever she can find it easily and surprise her.

Surprise her with gifts

Shower her with gifts frequently. You need not buy very expensive gifs. Out of the blue treat her with her favourite flavour of ice-cream. Give her a bunch of roses, call her and tell that you have booked movie tickets for one of the latest movies she wanted to watch. A cuddle toy melts the hardest hearts; send it to her with a love note attached to it.

Be yourself

Do not pretend to be humorous, if you are not. Be your self. She will love you the way you are and not for some other reason. She will easily see through you. You may not be good at cracking jokes but you may be a romantic at heart. Be an original and you will be loved.


Make her laugh

You need not to be a laughter champion to make her laugh. A few spontaneous jokes can make her giggle. Tell her about funny incident that happened to you when you were a small boy or tell her about some funny thing you read somewhere. You do not have to try any tricks for this, just share some funny episodes.
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Hugs & kisses

Warm hugs and passionate kisses blossom a relationship. A loving touch can work like magic. Greet her with a warm affectionate hug when you meet her. Not only hugs and kisses but a loving touch like holding her hand and caressing her is necessary to show your love towards her. When you are sitting with a group of friends, hold her hand below the table and see her trying to hide her blush.

If you have been going through a rough patch with your girl friend or just fallen in love, you now have the secret to make your girl friend happy. A relationship needs to be nurtured and it is the small things that make a big difference. It is time now to give her wonderful reasons to fall in love with you all over again. What are you waiting for?

Is your relationship working well? Do you think your girl friend is happy with you? Have you ever given her a surprise? To share your views and experiences write below.

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Beautiful Paki girls wearing Hijab as a Fashion

Here you can see hot Muslim girls who are wearing hijab. Pakistani girls come in a variety of shapes, sizes and of course dress codes…not least of which is the hijab. Hijab is an Islamic dress code which entails the covering of the hair.

Unlike the commonly held stereotypical belief, however, hijab does not include covering of the face. Face covering(known niqab) are not an Islamic dress code, but actually derived from the culture of the Arab Bedouins and has no basis in Islamic injunctions.

Pakistani girls are wearing hijab nowadays as a Fashion dress, hijab has been cultured in our society as fashion. And arab girls do not think it is fashion, they think it is their identity. But mostly Indian Muslim girls and Pakistani girls wearing hijab as new fashion. Iranian girls and Bengali girls wearing hijab due to Islam and their limitations in society otherwise they are also want be moderate.

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Desi Girls

Beautiful Islamabad university girl photos

Islamabad girl

As title described you every thing about this hot Islamabad girl. This college girl is from Aabpara Islamabad and looking to young boys for friendship and secret relations. You may help her in this matter. She also can help you to meet a escort agency female owner for more Pakistani girls from Rawalpindi or Islamabad.

I’ve visited some classified websites two days ago and I noticed about some facts. From Pakistan many people have started Escort agencies and they are posting their services ads on different websites. They provide desi girls on rent from all around the Pakistan. The new thing is this, as a Muslim country and being Muslim Pakistanis are not allowed to start such kind of Business. But I think some people are moving on western track as they want be rich in nights and finding wrong ways like this one. Proving hot Islamabad girls is major thing in their service. I would like to share her words, she is escort agency owner who wrote in her post,

“Elite class 14 to 25 year college and school girls available for elite person and overseas businessman,welcome, only serious person contact me for booking, rates 25 to 90 thousand pak rupees, (i provide only domestic and school/college girls) privacy guaranteed.”

Now you can feel about how expansive Pakistani girls for sex.

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Indian Girls

Finding Mobile numbers of Indian girls is hard job

Finding the real Indian girls mobile number is a hard job because of fake posters. My one friend is living in Mumbai since 10 years. One day he told me about his experience to finding hot Indian girls mobile numbers. Of-course it was hard job for him to collecting the real desi girls’ cell numbers from internet. He spoke me, after surfing so many s desi websites he collected so many mobile numbers of girls. Then he has tried on each number to call them and 60% mobile numbers was not for him because some were off and some was in use by Indian boys. But he told me happily he got 40% real cell numbers of Indian girls. And majority of girls was so stupid as h. Why Indian girls are so stupid, I asked him. He said not at all but some girls were really hurting him when he tried to ask them about friendship and offer them to do online chat or something like more closer. He was saying it was really good experience to talk to the real desi Indian girls on their personal cell numbers. Who is posting their cell numbers I asked to him. He told me most of the Indian girls wants that their number should be popular on internet to they can have more friends and larger circle of foolish boys. And some boys also publish their mobile numbers on different websites to defame them. I just smiled on his answer and now I have written all this for you to get your feedback.

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Bengali Girls

Beautiful College girls from Khulna city Bangladesh

I’ve just checked out some new photos of desi Bengali girls submitted by users and I found some beautiful college girls images from Khulna city. You must know that Khulna is the third largest city in Bangladesh. It is located on the banks of the Rupsha and Bhairab rivers in Bangladesh. Khulna girls are well educated and shy full than other Bangladeshi girls. These photos are captured at the famous place of Khulna city “Tutpara”. Tutpara is nice place for visit and enjoy. Desi Bangladeshi girls from Khulna are not only showing their beauties but they are really enjoying a party with their college fellows and It might be good for you to make a chance and visit them to start friendship session. I know it’s not easy to get friendship with any Bangladeshi girl without any reason. It’s also don’t mean you try to tease them. Eve teasing is bad habit of Bangladeshi guys. Its so much dangerous for Bangladesh culture and your own homeland. So be honest and just try to friendship if you never win girls hearts then leave them and find other good girls. And one day, I am sure you will be with one loyal and beautiful bangladeshi girl even from Khulna city.

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