Relationships

Discover Your Love Language From These 5 Love Languages

Love, it’s not just a word everyone uses, it’s a deep concept and a true choice. In marriage we make commitment to each other from bottom of heart through our actions. Love is not just a list you can check off. It’s a way of life, living, thinking and doing.

Love and Crush, these two are different concepts, which have been mixed up by people. It can be terribly wrong if we blend them together. Crush is a choice and you may or may not follow it and in love you have no options. Crush is temporary infatuation while love is about soul bonding. Love is magic but crush is fairy tale.

5 Love Languages

Do you know your love language? Everyone has a preferred “love language”, but not everybody knows well enough to know what it is. And maybe they even know their love / spouse’s love language.

Love language (kærlighedssprog) concept has been developed by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., a renowned marriage therapist and author of The 5 Love Languages.  It provides insights into how people show their love to each other. There is no perfect book about love, but Five Love Languages (kærlighedssprog) is most important read on love.

5 love languages:

Words of Affirmation: This language is all about vocally affirming your loved ones. Think lots of “I love you,” “You’re so awesome,” “I’m so proud of you.” This true affirmation will create your habit that will change your love life.

Acts of Service: It is true that actions speak louder than words. Instead of having a partner gush about their love, people with this love language would show it by volunteering to do a chore, offering up an indulgent massage, or making dinner.

Receiving Gifts:  Gifts are another way to your love. It’s not necessarily to buy expensive gifts—even small gifts like flowers or magazines can speak volumes.

Quality Time: Lover need your time and proper attention; this could be best gift for your partner. People with this love language feel most loved when their partner switches into airplane mode for date night.

Physical Touch: Sometimes nothing says I love you like holding hands, sharing a shower, or a good old-fashioned make out session.

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Relationships

5 Rules of Better Sex in a Relationship

Sex in a Relationship

Have you ever heard someone saying that sex is not important for a healthy relationship? We neither. Aside from asexual couples (which is totally fine), people have sex and make it an integral part of their relationship and communication.

Trying to answer the question “how to have better sex”, you should begin with realizing – is that something wrong you do in bed? If the answer is “no”, you should think of ways to make your sex better. Spicing it up and making it more exciting is not all that hard. But do you know the rules of great sex in a relationship? With the help of our friends from pina-love, we gathered some of the most significant ones. Dive in!

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  1. Talk about sex. Discussing things in a relationship is extremely important. But when it comes to sex, people tend to avoid talking about it, finding it somewhat embarrassing and strange. Isn’t it dumb? You and your significant other are probably the closest people to each other in the entire world – and you have a taboo. Sounds odd, eh? And it is.
    You need to learn each other, know the preferences, secret desires etc. Don’t try to act like your last night’s sex fail didn’t happen. Talk about it, try to find the root of problems. It will significantly better your sex life.
  2. Set some goals. In everyday life, we achieve something all the time. Why don’t you implement this concept in your sex life? Some competition may change things completely. Write out some positions and places you want to try out; check out if some BDSM practices excite you; try role-playing.
    Create a list and think of a proper deadline for it. Gamification only makes everything better. But don’t overdo it. For instance, a threesome may work for some couples, but not for everyone.

    5 Rules of Better Sex in a Relationship

  3. P0rn may work for you. Watching p0rn together might seem like a bizarre idea. Put it this way – watching people having sex on a screen may lead you to another kind of sexual excitement; just imagine how excited you can get watching porn videos together. It can also play an educational role.
    Even though a professional p0rn production creates a somewhat un-achievable image, you can still learn something from the actors – positions, dirty talks, scenarios etc.
  4. Date nights are also a thing. Do you remember how you used to spend a lot of time strolling while holding hands? Having late diners in fancy restaurants? Watching stars and drinking wine all night? As relationships develop, date nights become rare. Likewise, your passion may dry out. Get back to those nostalgic days! It may help you get your sex life back on track, too.
  5. Spend a weekend together. Get some old movies, cook meals together and spend all weekend snuggling in bed. Of course, have a lot of sex. When you don’t rush into things and have a lot of time to get each other excited, thing might turn out to be totally different. Many couples suffer from the lack of time to have proper sex, which means that they omit foreplay to get directly to penetration. Maybe, this romantic weekend can help you reinvent your sex life.

All in all, the most important rule is to learn each other and talk about what bothers you, especially when it comes to sex. Clearly enough, great sex is yet another indication of a healthy relationship. And how healthy is yours?

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Most Compatible Zodiac Signs for Love Matches

compatible zodiac signs

When you fall in love with someone you may not check your zodiac sign match up.  May be both of you have not good match in astrology or whole relationship could be doomed from start. Every relationship needs lot of efforts put into it from both partners to keep the relationship alive. It is better to look at your zodiac signs to compare they really go well together or not. Similar qualities in both partners help a lot.

As the AstroTwins explain on their website:”

If you date someone of the same sign, congratulations! You’ve probably embraced your quirks and accepted your humanity.”

Twelve zodiac signs are divided along a circular vector system. Check Astrology vector footage of the zodiac circle below. If one partner’s sign is directly across from other partner sign on the zodiac vector, it can make love and romance related pairing.

compatible zodiac signs

Some people from different cultures often use detailed zodiac signs compatibility to determine if their relationship will be good in future or not.  Accordingly tells your own sign and your partners in order to understand completely on how the relationship will work. After that you can decide either you have to go along with same relationship or need to choose new one. Zodiac signs give you ways to improve your love life.

zodiac signs

Zodiac signs dates are important to know if you are already believe on astrology. Sun sign or Zodiac sign have dates of the month. Each zodiac sign have own time period/cycle. You must know your Zodiac sign which tell you all about your personality traits, your passivity and negativity. It explains how you are as lovers, your turn ons and turn offs, how you can attract your love.

Zodiac signs pairings:

Aries + Virgo or Scorpio
Taurus + Libra or Sagittarius
Gemini + Scorpio or Capricorn
Cancer + Sag or Aquarius
Leo + Capricorn or Pisces
Virgo + Aquarius or Aries
Libra + Pisces or Taurus
Scorpio + Aries or Gemini
Sagittarius + Taurus or Cancer

12 Zodiac signs always matched with one of the four natural elements.

  • Water
  • Air
  • Earth
  • Fire

Matching element signs:

Water: Cancer + Scorpio + Pisces
Air: Gemini + Libra + Aquarius
Earth: Taurus + Virgo + Capricorn
Fire: Aries + Leo + Sagittarius

It may be new to you as in zodiac matches you are depending on someone’s personality. Is there your march not compatible accordingly to zodiac signs but works well? Don’t forget to share your thoughts in comments.

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