Relationships

Everything You Need to Know About Couples Therapy

Nowadays it’s been really hard or nearly impossible to build the healthy relationships and keep them happy. Every couple goes through highs and lows in their relationships and it takes a little effort from both partners to maintain a long run relationship.

Couples Therapy

Whether you and your life partner are trying to give time to each other, finding it difficult to communicate effectively, or dealing with something a little heavier, parterapi (also known as relationship therapy, relationship counseling, couples counseling, and couples therapy) is all about communication and understanding between couples.

Making the decision to go to couples counseling or parterapi can be a very big step. In other words it is admitting that things in a relationship are not perfect and it is often hard to admit.

Couples may need “counseling” to learn how to understand each other in more supportive and understanding ways. Relationship therapy or parterapi can help couples achieve a deeper understanding of each other and iron out differences.

Some of the major ways in which couples counseling can benefit your relationship is in the areas of;

  • Improved communication
  • Restore your emotional connection
  • Negotiating your commitments.

Throughout the couple therapy (parterapi) process, the therapist aim to help couple see the relationship in a more particular manner.  They learn to stop the “blame game”. They also change the way that the partners actually behave with each other.

Couples Therapy

Some partners avoid to share their private feelings put themselves at bigger risk of becoming apart. Instead of focusing on fighting less, when problem arise, don’t be afraid to communicate with your partner.

Here are the five main reasons when couples need therapy to save their relationship.

  1. Frequent Arguments.
  2. Trust has been broken.
  3. Poor Communication.
  4. Something you feel wrong but you don’t know the reason.
  5. Something you want to convey to your partner but you’re failed.

If you have all above issues, you must be in disaster; you should try to solve it at home. Have dinner together or go for outing and watch a movie. Try to discuss any issues you have before sex. Be honest with each other.

If you and your partner feel you would benefit from relationship counseling or you are eager to learn how to connect more deeply and emotionally, you may find that talking with a professional counselor, psychologist or therapist may be helpful. If your partner denied going to a couples therapy session with you, you may consider going to individual therapy to sort out issues and learn healthy stress management.

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Massages and Other Fun Stuff: Top 7 Coping Mechanisms for Singles

Valentine’s Day has come and gone, and if you’re like many single guys and gals, you probably just stayed home and binged on your favorite TV shows and movies. Why would you go out amidst all the lovey-dovey couples out in full force? However, if you’re creative, then perhaps you should have tried these other coping strategies:

Coping Mechanisms

  1. Get a massage. A massage is something that you can do on your own, while at the same time you can also get some real human contact with someone who’s friendly and nice to you. The best massages in Montreal are especially fun, when you have attractive masseuses eager to help you relax. Afterwards, the stress goes out and you feel invigorated, and there are even health benefits as well. What’s not to like?
  2. Find other single friends and go out. Who says you need to imprison yourself at home while romantic couples enjoy themselves with a night out on the town? You’re not alone in being single, and there’s strength in solidarity. Contact all your single friends and have some fun in a bar or restaurant. Not every place in town will be full as they’re not “romantic” enough, so you should have lots of options to visit.
  3. Try Tinder. Yes, Tinder is a dating app. But it’s a new world out there, and there’s nothing really embarrassing about embracing new technology to help with age-old situations like being single. Quite a few people out there are looking to interact in various ways, and many of them are just like you. They’re single, interesting, and interested to meet new people. There are 50 million users, and 10 million of them are active each day.

Coping Mechanisms

  1. Work out. Yes, it can seem somewhat sad to do so, but for you it’s an opportunity to enjoy a quieter gym when couples are all out on a date. At least you’re working out, and that often leads to a more attractive physique. Besides, other single people may have the same idea and you can share some time with them. You can even meet new friends.
  2. Register for a fun class. There’s always yoga and other various types of exercise classes you can join, and many of your fellow students there will be single and willing to interact. You can also try to learn different arts and crafts, or artistic pursuits. You can even learn a new language, and native speakers of that foreign language may introduce you to a new and exciting culture.
  3. Arrange a family reunion. Having a social life isn’t all about romance and dating. It’s all about the human connection, and what’s more human than reconnecting with family members? Of course, some of them may tease you about your single status, but then others may try to play Cupid and match you up with other single people they know. That can actually be fun, even if it’s a tad embarrassing.
  4. Go on a hike. Sometimes you just want to be alone, but you don’t have to be alone in your apartment watching TV. Why not be one with nature? Enjoy the clean air, and perhaps develop a new appreciation for nature photography. Set up a hammock in the outdoors and enjoy a good book too. You’re stimulating yourself mentally, and at the same time reading is an inherently solitary pursuit.

Just because Valentine’s Day has passed, it doesn’t mean you can’t plan for next year, right? The next Valentine’s Day is always around the corner. But then these coping strategies are good for all occasions anyway, so try them and see what comes up!

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Why Cheating In A Relationship? – Survey

Being unfaithful to a spouse or your partner is a sin in any religion.  And it is called “Infidelity”. Infidelity can be one of the most panic experiences after losing newborn baby. This kind of pain is almost unbearable and much healing is needed afterward, whether you stay in the relationship or not.

Relationship and cheating

Yes, even those who act dishonestly to partners need to heal, unless they don’t feel guilty about cheating. If that’s the case then that’s a completely different subject. Many cheaters however do feel guilty and have to live with regret their entire lives which are not a quality way of living.

Ask your life partner to devote to change. If you decide that you are all set to go with your life partner in relationship, you should ask your partner to promise you that they will not follow the same pattern of behavior that led to the affair.

Unfaithful relationship is most challenging and damaging emotional event in life. Getting betrayed is like someone grabbing your heart so tightly and its stop beating.

cheating

We are looking for volunteers who have personally encountered infidelity either on their partner’s side or been unfaithful themselves.

Following we have prepared a survey (questionnaire); it is aimed at understanding behavioral changes in relationship in times of cheating by partners.

This questionnaire is completely anonymous and we don’t collect any personal data (e.g. name, address etc.) where you could be identified. All questions are general questions.

Please click here to Participate in Survey.

 

 

 

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Discover Your Love Language From These 5 Love Languages

Love, it’s not just a word everyone uses, it’s a deep concept and a true choice. In marriage we make commitment to each other from bottom of heart through our actions. Love is not just a list you can check off. It’s a way of life, living, thinking and doing.

Love and Crush, these two are different concepts, which have been mixed up by people. It can be terribly wrong if we blend them together. Crush is a choice and you may or may not follow it and in love you have no options. Crush is temporary infatuation while love is about soul bonding. Love is magic but crush is fairy tale.

5 Love Languages

Do you know your love language? Everyone has a preferred “love language”, but not everybody knows well enough to know what it is. And maybe they even know their love / spouse’s love language.

Love language (kærlighedssprog) concept has been developed by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., a renowned marriage therapist and author of The 5 Love Languages.  It provides insights into how people show their love to each other. There is no perfect book about love, but Five Love Languages (kærlighedssprog) is most important read on love.

5 love languages:

Words of Affirmation: This language is all about vocally affirming your loved ones. Think lots of “I love you,” “You’re so awesome,” “I’m so proud of you.” This true affirmation will create your habit that will change your love life.

Acts of Service: It is true that actions speak louder than words. Instead of having a partner gush about their love, people with this love language would show it by volunteering to do a chore, offering up an indulgent massage, or making dinner.

Receiving Gifts:  Gifts are another way to your love. It’s not necessarily to buy expensive gifts—even small gifts like flowers or magazines can speak volumes.

Quality Time: Lover need your time and proper attention; this could be best gift for your partner. People with this love language feel most loved when their partner switches into airplane mode for date night.

Physical Touch: Sometimes nothing says I love you like holding hands, sharing a shower, or a good old-fashioned make out session.

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Will Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy Fall in Love with Each Other?

Do you know anything about sugar daddy dating? Well if not, I suggest you may search it on your app store by simply using your mobile phone, or browse it on Google, many ads and not-good websites tho.

If you want me to recommend you guys I’ll say Sudy or SA is the best sugar daddy website so far. And if you already known about the sugar relationship and you may sugaring now, will them, or will you fall in love with sugar partner? Let’s see.

Sugar Baby

How Does Sugar Baby Think About This?

Dream-Way Sugaring

I think no one sugar baby won’t think that if connected a nice guy to be your sugar daddy and you two have nice dates, well accompanied, and then you have things about each other then you fall in love with each other would be a perfect way of sugaring. That guy is rich, charming, care about you, give you money and take you every crazy trip.

Your sugar daddy becomes your boyfriend, which is a fairy tale, it doesn’t mean it can’t be true, but it really rare and difficult. Evey sugar baby knows that mostly sugar relationships won’t last long because sugar seekers especially young girls only be interested in friendship or have short-time dilemma. Instead of finding love match, you could better say that you are looking for fun, company, financially support, mentor at the same time.

What if You Become Sugar Baby

If you do your search about the sugar stories out there, you may find that some sugar babies marry their sugar daddies and they live a happy life just like fairy tale, well, I have to say, princess be princess because her king do has money, and castle lol.

Seriously, if you become a sugar baby, don’t be too hush or too…in haste, you won’t find a right sugar daddy on the day you step in sugar world, but it also won’t take you much long time, as long as you learn the skill and be patient and have passion, of course, always care about your safe.

Sugar Baby

What I want to say is, know clearly what do you want and actual need if you become a sugar baby, it could be bad if you fall in love with your sugar daddy but he doesn’t, as sugar daddy always has more experiences in life than you, and so does the relationship life, and he will be more calm and acting cold than you.

It’s better you keep your heart ‘safe’ and don’t easily give any feeling or trust to your sugar daddy or easily believe what he promised you. If he love you first, make sure he is the right one and what could happen if you love him as well.

The Other Side of Sugar Daddy

We will think of a traditional character like the founder of the PlayBoy, who has power or fame, real rich but totally a business man.

However, with the growing numbers of sugar seekers we got more types of sugar daddies and there are more and more younger sugar daddies, that’s the most emotional group of people you should know that, young guys may not good at controlling their feeling like the older men, they may just want to have fun and hook up with you, they also may fall in love with you.

In addition, they may have lots of sense of controlling and if you want a relax relationship, you better find sugar daddy who older than you.

Well that’s actually one of questions of ‘sugar talk’, you can see what real users of sugar daddy app said about that or add your own opinion on that.

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5 Rules of Better Sex in a Relationship

Sex in a Relationship

Have you ever heard someone saying that sex is not important for a healthy relationship? We neither. Aside from asexual couples (which is totally fine), people have sex and make it an integral part of their relationship and communication.

Trying to answer the question “how to have better sex”, you should begin with realizing – is that something wrong you do in bed? If the answer is “no”, you should think of ways to make your sex better. Spicing it up and making it more exciting is not all that hard. But do you know the rules of great sex in a relationship? With the help of our friends from pina-love, we gathered some of the most significant ones. Dive in!

Hansika Relationship

  1. Talk about sex. Discussing things in a relationship is extremely important. But when it comes to sex, people tend to avoid talking about it, finding it somewhat embarrassing and strange. Isn’t it dumb? You and your significant other are probably the closest people to each other in the entire world – and you have a taboo. Sounds odd, eh? And it is.
    You need to learn each other, know the preferences, secret desires etc. Don’t try to act like your last night’s sex fail didn’t happen. Talk about it, try to find the root of problems. It will significantly better your sex life.
  2. Set some goals. In everyday life, we achieve something all the time. Why don’t you implement this concept in your sex life? Some competition may change things completely. Write out some positions and places you want to try out; check out if some BDSM practices excite you; try role-playing.
    Create a list and think of a proper deadline for it. Gamification only makes everything better. But don’t overdo it. For instance, a threesome may work for some couples, but not for everyone.

    5 Rules of Better Sex in a Relationship

  3. P0rn may work for you. Watching p0rn together might seem like a bizarre idea. Put it this way – watching people having sex on a screen may lead you to another kind of sexual excitement; just imagine how excited you can get watching porn videos together. It can also play an educational role.
    Even though a professional p0rn production creates a somewhat un-achievable image, you can still learn something from the actors – positions, dirty talks, scenarios etc.
  4. Date nights are also a thing. Do you remember how you used to spend a lot of time strolling while holding hands? Having late diners in fancy restaurants? Watching stars and drinking wine all night? As relationships develop, date nights become rare. Likewise, your passion may dry out. Get back to those nostalgic days! It may help you get your sex life back on track, too.
  5. Spend a weekend together. Get some old movies, cook meals together and spend all weekend snuggling in bed. Of course, have a lot of sex. When you don’t rush into things and have a lot of time to get each other excited, thing might turn out to be totally different. Many couples suffer from the lack of time to have proper sex, which means that they omit foreplay to get directly to penetration. Maybe, this romantic weekend can help you reinvent your sex life.

All in all, the most important rule is to learn each other and talk about what bothers you, especially when it comes to sex. Clearly enough, great sex is yet another indication of a healthy relationship. And how healthy is yours?

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Most Compatible Zodiac Signs for Love Matches

compatible zodiac signs

When you fall in love with someone you may not check your zodiac sign match up.  May be both of you have not good match in astrology or whole relationship could be doomed from start. Every relationship needs lot of efforts put into it from both partners to keep the relationship alive. It is better to look at your zodiac signs to compare they really go well together or not. Similar qualities in both partners help a lot.

As the AstroTwins explain on their website:”

If you date someone of the same sign, congratulations! You’ve probably embraced your quirks and accepted your humanity.”

Twelve zodiac signs are divided along a circular vector system. Check Astrology vector footage of the zodiac circle below. If one partner’s sign is directly across from other partner sign on the zodiac vector, it can make love and romance related pairing.

compatible zodiac signs

Some people from different cultures often use detailed zodiac signs compatibility to determine if their relationship will be good in future or not.  Accordingly tells your own sign and your partners in order to understand completely on how the relationship will work. After that you can decide either you have to go along with same relationship or need to choose new one. Zodiac signs give you ways to improve your love life.

zodiac signs

Zodiac signs dates are important to know if you are already believe on astrology. Sun sign or Zodiac sign have dates of the month. Each zodiac sign have own time period/cycle. You must know your Zodiac sign which tell you all about your personality traits, your passivity and negativity. It explains how you are as lovers, your turn ons and turn offs, how you can attract your love.

Zodiac signs pairings:

Aries + Virgo or Scorpio
Taurus + Libra or Sagittarius
Gemini + Scorpio or Capricorn
Cancer + Sag or Aquarius
Leo + Capricorn or Pisces
Virgo + Aquarius or Aries
Libra + Pisces or Taurus
Scorpio + Aries or Gemini
Sagittarius + Taurus or Cancer

12 Zodiac signs always matched with one of the four natural elements.

  • Water
  • Air
  • Earth
  • Fire

Matching element signs:

Water: Cancer + Scorpio + Pisces
Air: Gemini + Libra + Aquarius
Earth: Taurus + Virgo + Capricorn
Fire: Aries + Leo + Sagittarius

It may be new to you as in zodiac matches you are depending on someone’s personality. Is there your march not compatible accordingly to zodiac signs but works well? Don’t forget to share your thoughts in comments.

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Free Matrimonial Platform To Get Married with Desi Tamil Girls

Tamil wedding

Indian marriages are symbolized by a whole host of rites and rituals, traditions, pomp and festivity and hundreds of small customs passed down from generation to generation. Be it a Bengali wedding, a Muslim nikaah, a Sikh shadi, a Tamil marriage or a Gujrati garba, they all have one thing in common – the existence of family rituals. iMarriages brings to you a quick peek into the world of Indian weddings, vivaahs, free Tamil marriages, nikaahs, lagans, lagnas, shubh vivahs in all their glory.

Tamilians are an ethnic and native group of Tamil Nadu and the north-eastern region of Sri Lanka. Besides that, emigrant Tamil communities are found across the world. Tamils are largely Hindus with sizeable Christian and Muslim populations.

Tamil is the first Indian language to be given a classical status. Amongst other Dravidian languages, it has the oldest extant literature. The art and architecture of the Tamil people encompass some of the remarkable contributions from India to the art world.

Tamil wedding

When you have chance to attend a Tamil wedding event, you’ll feel like you’re stepping into a royal ceremony. Tamil weddings are filled with use of gold, red complexion and followed in small details.

With a participants list of over 250 guests, you can see a large family gathering at Tamil weddings. During the ceremony, the parents of the bride and groom are considered / likely important as the couple.

Tamil weddings are long processes. When the bride and groom walk is done, the priest performs a Ganesha pooja (a religious ritual), followed by married women who know the bride and groom. The priest and then parents of couple bless the couple, along with a thali and then give the saree the bride changes into.

Tamil weddingAs after sharing thali the wedding ends and all participants eat vegetarian food only, then bride come again to the event hall after wearing new saree which was given by parents. At this stage, the groom ties the thali around his bride’s neck, to confirm the official marriage. Then couple walks around a holy fire three times, and are blessed by their parents and participants.

If you are looking for Tamil bride or groom, and don’t have time to roam round, why not try online matrimonial search engine for Tamil wedding? iMarriages is a free matrimonial website for Tamil weddings. iMarriages Tamil Matrimonials page will help you to find other grooms/brides who are located in the same Tamil location. Browse thousands of Tamil Matrimonials or find your soul mate in iMarriages Tamil profiles.

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